Love Sex LA: Unfiltered

Manifesting in Your Healing Era (ft. Ryan Lu)

Your healing era can be your most magnetic one. Alexandria and Ryan Lu talk manifestation, modern dating, and what to do when you’re getting over someone you saw a future with. This episode is all about shifting from heartbreak to high vibration—and becoming the version of you that your future person is already manifesting.

From Chasing to Choosing: Healing Your Dating Energy, Raising Your Value & Dating with Discipline

In this episode of Love, Sex, LA: Unfiltered, Alexandria sits down with dating coach & matchmaker Nelly Sudri to unpack what it really means to stop chasing love — and start choosing alignment.Together, they dive into how to heal your dating energy, date with discipline, and raise your value so you attract emotionally available partners who actually show up. They explore why so many women fall into “chasing mode,” how to embody feminine energy without losing yourself, and the hidden dangers of hookup culture — from emotional confusion to attachment mismatches to the false sense of intimacy that keeps you stuck in cycles you never meant to choose.Plus, they break down why we’re so drawn to emotionally unavailable men, how to rewire your attraction patterns, and how to choose connection with clarity instead of chaos. And of course… a round of Date or Ghost, decoding real-life dating scenarios.

The Art of Inviting: How to Get the Guy Without Chasing Him

They say if he wanted to, he would… but sometimes, he just needs an invitation. In this episode, Alexandria sits down with Taylor McPherson — aka Sparkle Queen LA — to talk about the soft power of feminine energy, the difference between pursuit and invitation, and how to give the perfect nudge without losing your sparkle.From subtle signals to confident body language, this is a masterclass in magnetism, modern femininity, and giving the perfect nudge.Tune in for flirty wisdom, unapologetic self-worth, and a few “Date or Ghost” scenarios that’ll make you rethink who’s really in control of the chase

Surviving the Horror Show of Modern Dating: How to Be the Final Girl with Rory Uphold

This week, Alexandria sits down with writer, filmmaker, and podcast host Rory Uphold to talk about her brand-new book The Final Girl’s Guide to the Horrors of Dating — a darkly funny, brutally honest survival manual for anyone trying to find love in a world full of ghosts, vampires, and walking red flags.Together, they dive into why modern dating feels like a horror movie, the “monsters” we date (and sometimes become), and how to step into your Final Girl era — the one where you stop chasing chaos and start choosing peace.From The Vampire who drains your energy to The Zombie Ex who keeps rising from the dead, Rory and Alexandria swap war stories, laugh through the trauma, and unpack what it really means to heal, date consciously, and still believe in love after all the jump scares.Because in the love story of your life, you’re not the victim — you’re the heroine.

It’s Not You, It’s Them: Protecting Your Peace in Love and Dating

This one’s for the girls in relationships, situationships, or even friendships that have left you questioning yourself. In this episode, we unpack why it’s not you, it’s them—and why giving your body, mind, time, and energy to someone before they’ve truly committed might be putting the cart before the horse. We’ll talk about how intentional dating means protecting your peace, and why it's time to stop replaying those old texts and wondering what you did wrong. Spoiler: you didn’t.

When Love Was Real (and Phones Had Cords): The Anniversary Episode

He stood her up twice — and now they’ve been married 33 years.In this special Anniversary Episode, my parents join me for an unfiltered deep dive into how dating has changed, what rejection used to look like, and why maybe ghosting isn’t that different from just… not showing up.We talk about old-school romance vs. modern chaos, second chances, and play Date or Ghost + Guess the Dating Term to see if my parents can survive the world of 2025 dating. Spoiler: they had no idea what “DTR” meant.

Date or Ghost? A Sister Roundtable on Rejection, Second Chances & the Golden Ticket

Three sisters, martini talk, and a game of Date or Ghost—what could go wrong? Chaos, comedy, and brutally honest takes.In this episode, I sit down with two of my sisters, Angelica and Julia, to tackle two big dating questions:- How do you cope with rejection (especially when it stings)?- Does anyone really deserve a second chance?Of course, I couldn’t resist sharing my own cringe confession—like that time I told my crush (two martinis deep) that I was offering them the “golden ticket” and it was “take it or leave it.” Spoiler: they left it.Come for the laughs, stay for the sisterly banter, and leave with a fresh perspective on rejection, resilience, and knowing when to ghost vs. give grace.

Hollywood Dreams: Lily Kincade Goes Cinematic

I sit down with singer/songwriter Lily Kincade to talk all things Cinematic—her brand new album dropping October 24. We get into the stories behind the songs, how her first love became a muse, and what it really means to keep chasing your dreams when the path isn’t always perfect. We also dive into falling in love in LA, the inspiration that fuels her artistry, and so much more. And of course, it wouldn’t be Love, Sex, LA: Unfiltered without a round of our favorite game, Date or Ghost.

Mocktails & Mayhem: Ben Jacob on Love in LA

LA dating, but make it honest (and hilarious). I sit down with my friend Ben Jacob to talk gay dating in LA, sober first dates, age gaps, the hardest parts of finding real love here, and Ben’s craziest dating stories. Plus, we play our favorite game: Date or Ghost.Expect green flags you can’t fake, boundaries that actually work, and a standards reset you’ll feel tomorrow.

Would He Make the Cut? How to Cast the Right Guy in the Reality Show of Your Life

Would he make the cut? On this episode of Love, Sex, LA: Unfiltered, I’m joined by my casting-producer bestie, Cheech, to turn reality-TV casting criteria into a foolproof way to vet your love life IRL. We kick off with our game Cast or Cut (our spin on Date or Ghost) and rapid-fire the red flags: mid-divorce but still wearing the ring, only FaceTiming from the car, “it’s chill—I live with my ex,” endless texting with zero dates, and more. Then Cheech pulls back the curtain on how she casts men for dating shows—and how those same filters (accountability after past relationships, family dynamics, ideal first-date tells, subtle red flags, and whether he’s a pursuer, slow-burner, or collector) map perfectly to your next situationship. We also get personal—Cheech shares the wild story of discovering a partner’s infidelity mid-interview—and she leaves singles with grounded advice for getting back on set (aka back on the apps) after a heartbreak. Hit play for laughs, tea, and a casting-call level standards reset.