Love Sex LA: Unfiltered

Red Flag or Anxious Attachment? Sabrina Zohar Unfiltered

Is it a red flag…or your nervous system asking you to regulate? Sabrina Zohar joins Alexandria for a candid, zero-shame conversation about attachment, intuition, and the difference between chaos and chemistry. We kick off with a game of “Date or Ghost”, then get personal about the moments that shaped Sabrina’s work and worldview.We move into Attachment Styles 101—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—what people misunderstand about “secure,” and how regulation (not perfection) shifts your patterns. In the main segment, we map out red flag vs. trigger, quick self-checks before you spiral, and how to tell intuition from a trauma response. Consider this your dating audit: practical tools, zero shame, receipts included.

The Life of a Showboy: Cameron’s Version

Dating in LA is a stage — and Cameron Carr and I are here to judge the auditions. We break down the city’s performative dating culture (image, access, “brand-safe” chemistry) and answer the only question that matters: do you make him a Lover, or Exile him? From soft-launch purgatory and “audition energy” to consistency vs. potential, we spell out clear walk-away cues and green-flag keeps. Swiftie Court is in session, the gavel is tiny, and the verdicts are practical: how to stop chasing applause and start choosing partners who show up off-camera. Rate/review if this helped you exit stage left at the right time.

Little Miss Fix It

Little Miss Fix It reports for duty. This week I unpack why the black cat boyfriend is suddenly everyone’s type, why your love life is not a home renovation project, and what my DJ saga taught me about fixing men who don’t want to be fixed. We talk attachment patterns, red flags disguised as “potential,” and how to step out of the contractor role and back into main character energy.

Get the F*#k Over Him

He’s hot. The chemistry is crazy. But he’s consistent at being inconsistent. In Episode 8, we’re getting brutally honest about moving on—whether it’s from a long-term ex, a messy situationship, or That Guy you never quite dated.

If He Wanted To, He Would...Or Would He? (Part III: Stop Playing Defense)

In Part III of our “If He Wanted To” series, Alexandria sits down with dating expert and author Benny Hart, who doesn’t mince words when it comes to modern love. Benny dishes out practical advice, calls out emotional games, and shares why he thinks one of the biggest mistakes women make in dating is playing too cool. From whether “no contact” actually works to whether you should ghost the guy who just got out of something serious, this episode is your no-fluff guide to dating with clarity. Watch to find out when to hold on, when to pull back, and when it’s time to stop playing defense.

If He Wanted to, He Would...Or Would He? (Part 2: Have Game, Don’t Play Games)

We’re back with part two of the conversation that broke the internet — and this time, we’re bringing in the male perspective. Niko Emanuilidis joins Alexandria to unpack the 80/20 rule of “if he wanted to, he would,” why some men ghost (and then reappear), and how real transparency is the new sexy. They talk dating games, emotional availability, Mr. Big vs. reality, and Niko's personal rule for when you should “date or ghost.” It’s honest, unfiltered, and exactly what you need in your queue right now.

If He Wanted To, He Would...Or Would He? (Part 1: You’re the f*cking Super Bowl)

We’re kicking off our new series by unpacking the phrase that launched a thousand spirals: “If he wanted to, he would.” But is it gospel…or just glorified gaslighting? From Coldplay cheating scandals to the fall of Jeremiah Fisher (sorry, Team Nice Guy), we’re breaking down what real effort looks like—and why charm without consistency just doesn’t cut it. Plus, I went on a first date. Yes, a real one. And against all odds (and dating app horror stories), he actually followed through. It proved that sometimes… if he wants to, he will. And he did.This is your reminder: You are the Super Bowl. And the right man? He’ll move mountains just to make kickoff.

Ghosts, Cardboard Energy, and ”Let’s Be Friends”: Rachel Friedman Unfiltered

Rachel Friedman of Unwell's radio show, Dialed In, breaks down the modern dating game—and nothing’s off-limits. From ghosting and red flags to crying it out on the StairMaster, we get into the unhinged chaos that is today’s love life.We talk about her viral TikTok term “cardboard energy” (spoiler: it’s exactly what it sounds like), why dating in NYC might just be superior to LA, and the story of that two-week fling that unexpectedly catapulted her into crying over someone else at the gym to Taylor Swift.Whether you're navigating situationships, dating app burnout, or just trying to decode that “let’s be friends” text, this episode is for the chronically romantic, the emotionally unwell but self-aware, and anyone who's ever confused a situationship for a soulmate.Hit play. Let’s get unfiltered.

Are You Too Much or are You Just in the Wrong Room: Emma Paige Unfiltered

Ever been told you’re “too much”—especially by the wrong guy? This week on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered, Alexandria sits down with Emma Paige from the Too Much Podcast to unpack why being ‘a lot’ is actually your biggest flex. Emma breaks down her iconic Five Box Theory, shares why you should never shrink yourself for someone who can’t handle you, and gets brutally honest about outgrowing the wrong men (and the wrong rooms).It’s all the things your situationship won’t talk about: dating in LA, self-worth, and why the right person will never make you feel like you’re “too much.”If you’ve ever felt like you’re just too big for his little life, this episode is your permission slip to be even louder.Get ready for hot takes, bold laughs, and zero apologies.

Crush or Crash: The Art of Not Spiraling

Modern crushes aren’t cute—they’re chaotic. In this episode of Love Sex LA: Unfiltered, I spiral (hard) over a green-eyed Capricorn and reflect on how to break old patterns, stop the overthinking, and enjoy the crush without crashing. Plus, I read your wildest “relationship allergy” stories. Let’s breathe, touch grass, and romanticize reality—not red flags.